Many men make very detrmental mistakes when they tell a girl that they like her and as a result many of them get rejected and heartbroken which need not be the case if they know how to correctly approach the issue. This is why men are often so scared of telling women that they like them. They are afraid of rejections that can end the relationship.
If you search the internet, you can see that most of the advice given by the so called dating experts is to ask you not to tell her that you like her and even play hard to get to increase her sexual tension so that she tries harder to get into your good book. It is no wonder that so many men are happy to adopt this play hard to get method merely because they can avoid being rejected.
The problem is that there are some flaws to this strategy such as some guys will go overboard with this technique until the woman feels insulted and a woman is not going to like you if she feels that you are insulting her. Worse, she may even hate you for being such an oxymoron.
Then some guys will play the game a little too long until the woman takes his game literally and thinks that he is not interested in her and she goes off with another guy. By then, it may be too late to win her back although it can still be done by an experienced player.
So the best way is to show or tell a woman that you like her without actually telling her or being explicit about it. So how do you do that? Here are some tips.
Compliment her only if she has worked for it. So you only compliment what is real and what she had worked hard for and thus it does not come out as a flattery just to please her like what most other men will do. So your compliment will come forth as more genuine and yet, not too often like you are being desperate to please her. After the compliment, start teasing and flirting her. Let down your hair and have some fun.
In other words, when complimenting her, you are in effect showing her that you like her and by teasing her, it is like showing her it is no big deal and you are not needy about it. It is a way of letting her know that you have an interest in her but is nonchalant about it whether she feels the same way with you so that you can still keep the sexual tension intact.
Now, although I have to admit that the play hard to get method do work, it is for guys who know how to play that game well and not many men do. So there is no reason for you to take the risk, isn't it?
Therefore the key is to create an emotional connection by making her laugh and having fun together and then you pull it away now and then to keep the sexual tension high. This in turn will unlock any woman's feelings for you to make her like you back and is how you can let the girl know that you like her without actually telling her.
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